her being or not being religious doesnt have anything to do with it probably.. Lots of people wait to have sex sometimes until they get married OR just because they want to get to know the other person better before jumping into it - have you asked her about this?
maybe she isnt ready and if she isnt then let her decide when she wants toHow often are couples supposed to have sex?
The answer is very simple! It is actually relative to every girl!
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It depends. The first time I had sex, I was in a relationship for 16 months before it happened. With my husband, we knew each other for 5 years and were dating for 3 months before our first time together. It doesn't have anything to do with religion - she may just have good morals. Are you just dating or are you in a serious relationship? Have you talked about sex or are you just assuming it'll happen all of the sudden one day? If you think you're relationship [if that's what it is] is ready to go to that step, talk to her about it.
Your question seems a bit 'different' from the description you elaborated...
If it is 'how often', I would say, 2~4 times per week?
If it is 'for how long should start', then... it REALLY depends on the girl... OR I should say whether the girl is a virgin...
Virgin will hold...
Non-virgin will... (you know the answer...)
I think 6 months is long enough in a relationship to wait, maybe try talking to your gf and tell her your ready to take the next step, if you don't talk to her you won't know what she's thinking.
I think you should be having this discussion with her. As uncomfortable as it is to some people, that's the only solution you have. She could be waiting on marriage or could be wondering the same as you are.
Ok, first of all you never really need to have sex. You have a girlfriend for goodness gracious! She's not your wife! I don't mean to be rude but it is not an obligation. Yes, it is perfectly normal.
Six months is awhile. The big thing is maturity of the person. I'd say you should have a discussion and see whats up. If I was dating six months and no sex I'd be questioning if she likes men.
The ideas of normal or irregular don't apply in these types of situations. I suggest you talk with her regarding her feeling on intimacy and then share your own and see where that conversation leads you.
relationships should not be based on sex, ever think that maybe she want to make sure she likes you before she gives you that part of her?
couple of times a week is good
maybe shes a virgin then it would be very akward and nerve wracking for her
also it depends how old you guys are
my boyfriend and i waited 1 and a half years..
then again we were only 13 when we first started going out,
now we do it about every weekend
You could always rape her if you're desperate. But then again, that is against the law so I don't advise it.
it could be normal....reliogion has nothing to do with it...maybe she has good morals.....lucky you for not dating a hoe
Well have you tried? Maybe she is waiting for you to make the first move?
Um...Are you sure you're dating? lol. I would say after the first month or 2 being together...sex would come up and happen.
Wait, Dating? Or in a relationship? That could be your problem.
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