Is not true that mutual understanding results in spiritual love between couples ?

Is not mutual understanding between couples, the highest degree of Intimacy? At old age when both the partners have wrinkles on their faces it is this mutual understanding that continues to give joy as it did in early days of marriage. Is it not true ?Is not true that mutual understanding results in spiritual love between couples ?
I can't accurately answer this question as I have not yet discovered the truthful answer to this question. I don't think anyone on here is actually young enough to be able to answer from experience xD





I get what you're saying though and it's quite though evoking and will leave me pondering for days. Good question!Is not true that mutual understanding results in spiritual love between couples ?
Mutual understanding CAN result in spiritual love but it's not the only thing. Respect can result in spiritual love and so can tolerance or commitment. So can stupidity and so can physical attraction bc I have seen all these.





I know a guy who cheated, moved in with his girlfriend, dupmped her and went back to the wife and the wife still loved him through it all. that's tolerance, not necessarily understanding, but understanding might have been a part of it but not TOTALLY understanding alone. Also I think it was part stupidity.





Another guy who was 80 years old, told me all he and his wife had was commitment. He said they fell out of love many times but never at the same time and neither one broke a promise. That is respect and commitment, not really mutual understanding.





Another couple I swear the guy only loves this woman because she has HUGE boobs. He is smart and she is dumb as a rock. She cheats and spends too much and is not very nice. He is better looking as she drinks lots and lost her looks but still has the big boobs. This is not understanding, it is not respect...it is sheer physical attraction to the boobs, Crazy, huh?





so you see my point?
I think it depended from the strange of love. One couple can write essay about each other and other ones don't see often each other. It last someone years to build good strong relationships and other people can fell in love after first date.


If u support your understanding by some intimacy your relationship will never withered.


Another way it can just bring u a lot of sufferings.


it will take a wile to understand what kind of relationship do u need with your half.
Yes, dear friend. But not only that. I think it麓s even more important to have learnt the respect to that parts of our partner that麓may be we don麓t get to understand.
Nope. I believe it's memory. And that brings about love.


There's no such thing as spiritual love. That just implies that you love something, but can't remember it fully.
Why don't you go read a Danielle Steele novel and eat a box of bon-bons. You sound like a menapausal old lady.
Yes its TRUE.....


And I hate that turkish