Thursday, December 31, 2009

Can someone explain why couples who live together and then marry end up divorcing?

Why is it that couples live together for several years, then decide to get married, and then end up divorced a little later? Not saying all couples are like that, but a lot of them end up broken up and in divorce court.Can someone explain why couples who live together and then marry end up divorcing?
They just grow apart and sometimes couples think that by getting married after they have lived together for so long and they have issues, that marriage will make things better and sometimes it doesn't but don't get me wrong not all couples are like that...Can someone explain why couples who live together and then marry end up divorcing?
Probably those are the people who takes marriage very seriously, maybe too seriously. If you lived together for several years, you are like married couple, but when they do get married, probably they want something much more. And when that expectation is not met, they would feel more frustrated.
uh... I really don't think so, where did you hear that?





Actually, its better to live with someone before marrying them... this way, you fully know them, everything about them, before marrying them. This way, there are no ';surprises'; after the wedding that will make you want to run.
well.....maybe they didnt realize that they didnt really trully Love eachother so they jsut split....i thought my parents loved eachother and they got a divorce=( maybe once someone gets married they find things out about a person that they dont like and then they split!


but im not really sure im just making an educated gues!!! srry if it didnt help!!!
Many people get married without thinking, they think they love each other and marry. Some people feel different when they get married, making them act different. People realize that they can live with each other, they feel they are with a differnt person.
Well I think it's okay to move in with someone before marriage if you KNOW you are going to marry that person. People live together for years and then think well, I guess we should get married now. Sad, but true.
I really don't know. My husband and I didn't live together before we were married. We just celebrated 14 years together.
Well I have never known anyone that happened to all the people I know who lived together before they got married are still together. The ones who didn't are divorced!
Couples that marry get divorces . Living together has little to do with anything .
irreconciable diffferences..not everything and everyone are what they precieve to be.
Something changes when the ';contract is signed';!
Because sex before marriage goes against the bible.
Maybe they just change and grow apart from each other.
So do a lot of couples who dont live together first.
sad but true.
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