According to Xandria: “The most common vibrator user was a white Christian married woman, in her thirties, who votes Republican.” - Source, Xandria's toys in the sheets survey.
I know hundreds of couples who use them, because I correspond with them frequently. But you didn't mention what kinds of sex toys your boyfriend wants to use. There are anal sex toys, penis rings, dildos, vibrators, sex furniture, bondage toys, fetish toys and more. Even some lubes and lotions can really crank things up.
The point is, you have to kind of grind out the details on what you are, or aren't going to want in the play session. For instance, some people find anal toys gross, while others can't imagine sex without an anal plug involved. Some people like vibrating penis rings, while it kills the mood for others.
So before you say ';yeah, sounds like fun,'; you might want to get ultra-specific about exactly what you are willing to try. And talking it through might even give you both other ideas for play.
Also, it really helps to know what stimulation excites you. Take some time with fingers, tongues and other appendages to figure out what does it for you, then find the toy that will hit the spot. You may even discover that the finger is the toy you like best!
Good luck in your search. Hope this helps.My boyfriend recently suggested for us to use sex toys, Do many couples do this ?
we use it all the time. Check out www.SixtyNineSecrets.com , they pretty cheap.
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It is certainly not rare or unusual, but most couples don't use them, or use them only a few times. A lot of people think they are more trouble than they are worth, but that's a personal decision.
My own attitude is that nature gave us the best sex toys in the world, a penis and a vagina. :-) They also gave us other things that are fun to play with, like breasts and balls. Everything else is not quite as good as what we already have.
But if you are interested in trying toys, then don't feel embarrassed about it. As I said, plenty of couples do experiment with them, and some make them a regular part of their sex lives. I think guys like the idea more than girls, but the only way to know is to try it out.
By the way, make sure you disinfect everything after each use. Even though it will be only for the two of you, your toy can carry bacteria, and if that gets inside you, you can get an infection. So have fun, but be safe.
Hi, although it may not be talked about openly, more and more couples are spicing up their sex life with the use of toys. I think it is important to remember that sex toys are meant to enhance and not to replace. With that said, my mate and I have been using toys for about 10 years and find them to be alot of fun.
I believe it is equally important that before buying a toy, you and your mate should also discuss possible likes and dislikes, and respect each others feeling regarding there use. This will also allow a starting point for the use of toys in your relationship. You guys may find role playing especially fun. The use of costumes and fetish wear can be a real turn on. We personally use several different toys. Vibrators seem to be very popular. Once you both decide on what is right for you, visit an online toy store to view products and get a better idea of your likes and dislikes.
There is a website that was designed with couples in mind. It is very tastefully done (not sleazy). For them both to feel comfortable. If you are interested, the site is: www.TryToysDirect.com Good luck and have fun!
Me and my fiancee use toys to keep our sex life interesting. Not every single time but whenever we're in the mood. I think its great when you can experience you're most devious sexual desires with the person you love.
My partner and I sometimes do for a little variety. They say variety is the spice of life, and I would tend to agree. Sex is too good and too important to allow to get boring.
Why must you use sex toys - it made you so artificial or useless.
God have give you natural tools ( with feelings and sensations ) instead of toys .
Why go against nature %26amp; becomes a freak.
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A lot of the couples I know don't. However me and my fiance have talked about it before too.
Bella
yes lots of couples do this is quite common and normal. you should just go for it you might enjoy it.
i've been married 20 years and we use them. i was totally against them at first but now....i like!!!! just a little tip...use them to enhance your lovemaking and don't depend on them all the time. ENJOY!!!!
lots of couples use this! It bring spice and passion into a relationship!!
More than you think. They just don't talk about it, and they are probably happier.
yes lots do
its pretty common
so long as you both agree, whats the harm?
yes they do i do it is really fun
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