What do you think of couples having a spat in public?

My friend and her husband don't mind bringing their drama wherever they go - including formal affairs like dinner/dances and weddings. My husband doesn't want to invite them anymore because we never know what to expect.





Would you stop inviting them? Would you tell them the truth about why they aren't invited?What do you think of couples having a spat in public?
Yes, to both !





It might help them, but I doubt it.What do you think of couples having a spat in public?
It's a natural thing that couples go through, and to voice it in public just shows that they are not scared to hide anything or what they are.





But it is also wrong to bring down each other in public and therefore shows that they have no respect for each other. And from what you are saying it sounds like they do it all too often.





I understand your husbands point of view, it gets enough after some time, and your husband probably gets embarressed.





I would tell them as thats what friends are for.. ('',)





Sit her down over tea and tell her that you think they need some counseling as fighting all the time is not healthy for a relationship (Especially attacking each others egos in public) It hurts a person.. And tell her that you are afraid to invite her to places as they always fighting and it hurts you..





Good Luck..
They are immature and their behavior inappropriate. I've got neighbors like that...they'll stand out in front of their house (across the street from me) and scream at each other in the middle of the night.





I agree with your husband. I wouldn't invite them and if they asked, I'd politely explain why. Social events are for fun and if they have a high rate of acting out during such events, they wouldn't be on the guest list of any of mine...that kind of drama needs to be saved for the theater. They need to learn to keep their personal business private.
If this is what they are known for, that is BAD! I mean occasionally couples will get mad at each other probably have a few words and you can tell they are angry, but to be known for this type of behavior is another story!! If you feel it is important for them to be there then I would have a talk with them nicely suggesting that you didn't want anything like that to happen. Otherwise, I would not invite them! Good luck
Inappropriate. Maybe you could talk to the person you're closer to and ask if there is anything you can do so they can get along a little better when you're all together/ Or somehow mention tactfully that you'd love to include them in social events but have noticed that they're bickering makes the other guests uncomfortable.
I would still invite them if you do have fun with them. How ever I would make them aware of the behavior that they are displaying.





If the problem is that you are embraced when you are around the drama then let them know that so they can get it together. Also tell them to save that sh** for when they at home
Actually...for me it would be very entertaining - if i didnt know them. But if they're my friends, i would try and talk to the woman. Ofcourse i would weigh how much her friendship means to me and what are the chances she'll be upset with me. But i would rather explaint oher then make her think i dont like her anymore
Be a true friend and let her know what's going on. Let her know you are concerned and be truthful and tell her that they are an embarrassment. Also don't blame the decision on your husband when speaking with her, he has a valid reason...
I think it is humiliating for the people fighting and a very uncomfortable feeling for the ones around. I would certainly let them know why they were not being invited and let them make the choice to either behave bettter or not show.
I would tell them the truth,and then tell them you will no longer be inviting them because it is to embarrassing to you and your husband.
I love it. It's like reality TV, but without the TV. Plus, it can be interactive if you want it to be - highly entertaining!
well if your really her freind you wont baill on her under anny surcesstanses for anny reason if you aret a real freind you will and tell her your not a real freind. 11 years old isana
It's very rude to air one's 'drama' in public.....it should be saved for private times, especially if one is at a wedding.
I think ';have you no shame';


Yes I would stop inviting them and yes I would tell them the truth, it's only fair
LOL I would let them come. Love is can be a very emotional feeling for some people. They can't help it. Plus it could be kind of entertaining.
i think its just embarrassing. i would speak to them about it, because they probably dont realise how bad it is.
stfu or gtfo is what i would tell them