How often do you and your sig other fight? Once a day, week, month, never? Do you think that if there is fighting at all that it means you are not meant to be with that person or is it just a normal part of any relationship?How often do healthy couples have arguments?
There will always be fighting because you are different people and for a good relationship to be established, both parties must have imput. She cannot always get her way and you like wise.How often do healthy couples have arguments?
it's not about how often you fight. it's about how you fight. it's best to use ';I'; messages (dont use the word ';you'; when you're trying to say what you dont like/are upset about), do not interrupt the other person, understand that you arent going to always agree or even come to a conclusion, and take time to listen to and actually consider what the other person is saying- ask questions if you dont understand. above all: no hitting and no yelling.
This really depends on the couple. I've been in relationships where arguments were common. My last relationship we almost never argued. I am a laid back person for the most part and I prefer to avoid fights. My recent ex and I are still good friends.
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